Love

A mother came to me to talk about her daughter's love problem. Her daughter is only 15.
She told me that her daughter has fallen in love with a guy in the town without her knowledge.

She is worried. Her husband had cried over it.

Her worries about her daughter are as follows.
1. Will she get pregnant?
2. Will she get raped?
3. Will she be cheated?
4. How is her future?
5. Will she marry young?
6. can the guy support her?
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Lately,the guy has bought a hand phone for her. They have contacts secretly. Some of the sms read as follows.

1. I want to die.
2. I love you.
3. I need you.
4. I want you.
and others.

Her mother cares.She wants to help.

I am of the view that both must sit down and talk it out.

The mother needs to discuss with her about
1. how the early love will affect her future life
2. the importance of education
3. the problems of setting up a family
4. the finance of a family
5. the children
6. the household chores

Her daughter must listen to the advice and experience given by her mother.
She needs to look into her parents' difficulties to run a family.

When both have understanding and common view, the problem will end automatically without any quarrels and sour face.

Falling in love in the early age is not encouraged and not suitable for students.
Pregnancy is common in the town.
It will ruin her and her husband.
They have no skills at all to set up a family.
They have financial constraints also.