I always have a nice and friendly discussions about political happenings with my father. Sometimes we do have differences in opinions and visions. But we have one similar view that if one is fair to all, the actions taken by the one will not subject to critisms or oppositions.
In Buddhism, it says all the beings must be fair in treatment to the other beings. We must care about their welfare and well-being. We must try our best to provide them all the necessity in life.
So as parents we have to show our love and care to our all memebrs of the family. We have to help each other to raduce suffering spiritually and materially. Please not to forget the two old father and mother at home. They are our Buddhas to learn with. They are experienced in life.
I have learned a lot from my father about ways to handle life. He teaches me to be patient in whatever situations be it difficult or easy situations. My mother always remind us not to gossip about others to avoid misunderstandings and quarrels. So the old parents are our Buddhas at home.
I would like to share also that my wife is also another Buddha to model. She always give me advice about ways to overcome problems in work and friends. She is more patient that me when solving children problems.
My kids are my Buddha also. They are well-behaved. They are respectful to all members in tha family. They don't arise problems as the other youths out there.
I am thankful to have such a good family members. I have work harder to improve my cultivations for future lifes to come.
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